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kaiyoht
I would say if you have the brain wiring the rest is bound to happen eventually. Even if you have parents and/or folks around you that don't want you to be that close with animals.
In the end being told no no no over and over again tends to push kids away even further from people. If they already felt bad around them.
Most people can't put their mind into that of an animal. Definitely agree that most don't even try. But I've been asked countless times by pet owners to "help them" which translates to: "Please fix my annoying pets habits. Thank you bye."
Whenever I told them the stuff from their (usually) dogs point of view, and that basically already made the answer on what to do obvious to me, they looked at me like I've got 3 heads. They just can't understand it.
The love for the pet was always there in these cases. They always LOVE their stressed out pets. But don't understand them.