I've had my nose in the therian tiktok scene for a couple of years now, so I've watched this term gain traction and evolve. Based on how I've seen it most often used, I'd like to chime in.
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I think the huge divide between those who use holothere and those who hate it, tends to stem from two main uses of the word. You'll notice that neither of these uses reflect holothere's original definition including delusions, but
these are how it's been re-appropriated and how it is most often used today:
- 1) A holothere is someone who feels viscerally or wholly non-human. (Not physically in the literal sense; I'll get to that) Or,
- 2) A holothere is someone who feels that they should be physically non-human, or who voluntarily perceives themselves to be non-human (rejecting or ignoring reality, but not experiencing true delusions).
The problem is this: Both of the above are therianthropy.
These are common experiences of therians, and have been described by therians for as long as the community has been recorded. A good number of us identify fully as our theriotype, or perceive ourselves as our theriotype in a non-delusional, yet still deeply integral way-- through perception of the Inner Self, soul/astral beliefs, or because of intense shifts. Therianthropy covers a variety of 'depths' of animal identity, and while many learn to accept and cope with a human body in combination with the internal identity (as this is generally healthiest), this doesn't take away from the fact that
these are still presentations of therianthropy, and always have been.
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So why do some new/young alterhumans feel the need to label themselves as holothere as opposed to therianthropy?
My hypothesis is this:
It all comes down to where & how they learned about therianthropy-- often, tiktok or tumblr, or through word-of-mouth from peers who learned that way. In many places online, there has been a boom of performative 'therian' content over the last 5ish years: Wearing masks, doing quadrobics, adhering to a certain earthy fashion style, and (particularly) using theriotypes (or kinning) primarily as a way to describe what animals they connect with, relate to, or base their aesthetic around.
This is where many young people are learning about therianthropy, and as a result, they're beginning to see therianthropy in this watered-down and aesthetic light. Even if we try to explain (again and again) that that isn't what therianthropy is; they're still seeing content like that from their peers every day. It colours their idea of the community, intentionally or not.
So when they find themselves experiencing real & intense therianthropy-- frequent shifts, feeling at their core that they are non-human, wishing that they could be perceived in the same way they view themselves-- they think that they need a word deeper than therianthropy. That's when they come across holothere, and think that the distinction fits what they're experiencing.
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Many of them know that the actual definition includes the word 'physical', but they often justify their use of holothere by either:
- Trying to redefine the word physical (to mean wholly or viscerally, as opposed to 'based in physical reality'), or
- Through leaps of logic, such as "I identify as a cat, I have a body, therefore my body is that of a cat"
However, this redefining of 'physical' therian is harmful for all. For those that truly experience delusions, for the therian community at large, and for the lay-person trying to understand what therianthropy is.
Not only does it obscure the original definition of holothere by trying to make the term into something it isn't (as evidenced in the Q&A), but it also harms the therian community by perpetuating this idea that therianthropy is surface-level or only one degree of animal identity, and that a different term is needed to prove how deeply 'animal' someone is.
We don't need a new term to encourage splitting of the community or a weird competitive "I'm more animal than you" attitude. There is enough of that already. All this label serves to do is split an already complex identity further into small little boxes which barely fit anyone. It misrepresents therianthropy and perpetuates a false & superficial idea of it, alienating those who originally coined the term, and alienating therians who struggle to accept their humanity. And it discredits ALL communities by using 'physical' in a way that is simply not correct.
The rest of Spoon's post covers everything else, so I won't rehash the things that have already been said. But I wanted to add this on, as I get the feeling a few pups will read this and think "I'm not using the term to describe delusions, but I don't
want to acknowledge my body as human, so I'll keep using it".
Even when the term is used to describe a non-delusional identity (against it's original meaning), it is misguided at best and harmful at worst. You are still a therian if you are struggling with your humanity, or if you choose to reject it entirely. (And I think you'd be surprised how many of us can relate to those feelings).
I also agree with Neon Rosette's reply a bit above. If someone is experiencing true delusions, I don't think they would be seeking out a word that puts them into a little bubble like this. They would just 'be' the animal.
It falls into this weird grey area of "I delusionally believe I am a physical animal, but am self-aware enough to know that it is a delusion". This by definition, means that it is not a true delusion-- as true psychotic delusions typically involve a lack of insight. Having that degree of self-awareness, yet choosing to still feed into delusions / self-identify as being a physical animal -- and
encourage it by taking on an 'identity' that specifically marks you as delusional -- is unhealthy and shouldn't be encouraged. (Especially among easily-influenced young people just trying to find words to explore their identity).
And for my final point against the use of holothere: it's a very silly word. Oh holo there! ... Truly, I think they could have come up with a better and more intelligible label than that! I'm sure part of the reason it's been so easily misappropriated is that the definition is not at all clear from the word itself, so everyone has to rely on word of mouth, or praying you find the correct definition when diving in the depths of otherkin-wiki.
- Fern