I am quite new to the therian sphere of communities online, and from what I read I personally think this is a question better left unanswered, in a way (that's funny from me since I am quite inquisitive)
It makes sense to me why people may relate to wolves both spiritually and psychologically, my theory is that they may relate to another social meat-eating animal that may not even be canine, eg. otters, hyenas, vultures or even wasps! I also think that there are more mammalian therians because mammalians are closer to us and easier to relate, and also normally people know more mammalian species than other animals!
I guess my therian experience was an odd one, although I love studying about species who stand in a odd point taxonomically, specially endemic species, I have never shown much interest to maned wolves, nor I felt any connection to canines. I actually went through a patch in my life where i developed a phobia of dogs, and I also am still not fully comfortable around them, it's like, I find them cute and all but I don't like their smell nor I'd live with one. With a mix of constant visions, behaviours of mine and phantom shifts, and some spiritual things (and some later deeper research) I realised I am a maned wolf, but I would never have guessed if I didn't have the knowledge I have on different animal species and behaviours, I would have just assumed I was a wolf, fox or coyote of sorts.
To close this off, even if a person's actual theriotype may be something like a bony eared ass fish or a Falklands islands fox, if they relate to wolves and "wolf activities" makes them feel better, I guess
sometimes it's better not throw them again to a whole questioning process, unless they are willing to! Ontop of it I think since there are many wolf therians, I guess it makes it easier for them to form packs, eg. someone is a sea otter, but they can find companionship easily because they identify as a wolf, and they can feel included among other wolves, since they never found another sea otter therian, idk if this makes sense hsgdjhgshg
Buuuut I do have a project coming up to aid in this, I'll be making a behavioural bestiary of sorts so people may find they species more easily, even if its a less known one! Its among my threads if you are curious
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Aramantis if red fox is truly how you feel, dont let others opinions change you, remember what you feel was not a choice, it was involuntary and its simply who you are. As my mother says "Not even Jesus satisfied everybody, he was made perfect and yet he got crucified for who he was" not meaning this in a religios way but, you cant appease to everyone, someone will always have something to complain about you and thats okay! You owe them nothing, the only person in place to judge you and make choices for you is yourself! But if you do feel bad saying "red fox" you may try to sound a little fancier and say Reynard
I alos think this may cause judgement and infighting among a community who already suffers from outside threats, like some therians may judge or think lowly of other because their species is too "common" or in more recent terminology that its not "niche enough" (god i hate that word) or even condemn someone to not truly be therian simply because they are a grey wolf or a red fox or a cougar idk