Hello everyone,
Sorry for not chiming in sooner... was busy.
Basically to avoid any continued misunderstanding about the whole thing I want to point out that it's been a matter of extended discussion between me, @
LycanTheory and many other people on TG (across multiple threads) many of which are not active in this thread, where we in the end concluded that it was a bad idea to have lists such as these.
The reasoning was already explained by Lyc, so I shouldn't have to, but basically having a bunch of labels makes people want to describe themselves with these labels.
However labels are inherently inaccurate and thus while it may seem like a good idea to communicate your experiences with others using these labels, it is actually counterproductive. What you end up doing, is describing yourself in a way that other people will, inevitably, interpret differently than you have intended (because it is very easy to assume you know what a word means, even when you really don't).
What you should be doing instead, is explain your experiences in your own words. That way other people, instead of just having a few labels to figure out if they can relate to you or not, have
whole descriptions to work with which are a lot easier to properly understand. And in the end if more clarity is needed, we can have
conversations about it, which help people actually understand and relate to your experiences, instead of skipping to conclusions based on a few vague labels (you can see this happens all the time on platforms like Amino).
This is why on Therian Guide, we have a special forum, specifically dedicated to explaining your therian experiences, in your own words:
https://forums.therian-guide.com/Forum-Therian-Experiences#content
So.. I think as community members, it is our responsibility, to encourage other therians to talk about their experiences. It obviously goes against this purpose to just go old-school and post a list of labels with definitions (e.g. this thread), as if that was supposed to help.
I know it's difficult to put our experiences into words. A lot of it is based on feelings, and feelings are hard to word for therians and non-therians alike. However, it's the only real way for the therian community to move away from the dark ages of poor comprehension, tribal instinct and gatekeeping.
I would humbly request that we each do our part towards that goal.
LP,
Dusty